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Talking About Gender and Respect with Boys

Simple, supportive guides to help adults start honest conversations with boys.

Starting the Conversation

Talking to boys about gender, respect, and safety can sometimes feel overwhelming. These topics can be sensitive, personal, or complex, and it’s normal to worry about saying the wrong thing, not knowing all the answers, or navigating uncomfortable questions. For many of us, these discussions weren’t part of our own upbringing, so it can be hard to know where to begin.

Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, teacher, coach, practitioner or youth worker, you play an important role in helping boys understand empathy, safety and positive relationships.

These resources offer simple, practical ways to get started. They’re designed to support you in creating open, honest, and positive conversations about emotions, empathy and safety.

Alphabet of Key Concepts

 

 

A friendly A–Z guide that introduces key concepts such as empathy, consent, stereotypes, and gender—making complex topics easier to explore with children.

Available in English, French, and Arabic.

8 Actions to Help Boys Build Healthy Relationships

 

 

A practical brochure outlining eight everyday actions for families, educators, civil society, caregivers, and community members. It offers straightforward tips for adults to reflect on their beliefs, challenge stereotypes, talk about consent,and use play to teach positive values.

Available in English, French, and Arabic.

Short Videos to Watch and Reflect Together

Everyday moments are full of chances to talk with boys about feelings, values, and respectful behaviours. These short animated videos invite adults and boys to reflect on real-life situations and explore positive ways to respond.

Available in English, French, Arabic and Spanish.

Reflecting on our own biases

English

 

French

 

Arabic

 

Spanish

Let’s talk about consent

English

 

French

 

Arabic

 

Spanish

The power of positive role models

English

 

French

 

Arabic

 

Spanish

Using play and imagination to learn positive values

English

 

French

 

Arabic

 

Spanish

To learn more about our work on gender norms and boys:

ECPAT International
Global Boys Initiative Case Study: Pakistan

Year: 2025

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ECPAT International
Nerfing gender roles and rigid masculinity: A practical guide to gender-sensitive game safety and design

Year: 2025

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ECPAT International
Global Boys Initiative Case Study: Palestine

Year: 2025

ECPAT International
Gender considerations in online child sexual exploitation and abuse: a focus on boys

Year: 2025

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ECPAT International
Global Boys Initiative Case Study: Los Angeles, USA

Year: 2024

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ECPAT International
Global Boys Initiative Case Study: Calais, France

Year: 2024